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My English teacher when I was a sophomore in High School taught me something, something I'll remember and live up to for the rest of my life.
He said, "You don't HAVE to do anything." You ALWAYS have a choice. different choices have different consequences. So when someone tells you 'you HAVE to do this', find out what it is if you DON'T do it. You're faced with a decision that you need to make. The outcomes will be different for each of those decisions. Some may have a similar outcome, others may be very different. Nevertheless, the outcome is never exactly the same.
But you have made a decision, and you are always responsible for what happens after that. Whether it is at work, or in life. After all, it was YOUR CHOICE.
So yes, it IS ALWAYS your own damn fault, no matter what. You made a choice, and you are responsible for your own decision making, and anything that happens as a result of your decision making process.
Like if you got hit by a helicopter? It really wouldn't have happened if you were sitting at home in the living room watching TV.
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