aerton Senior Heliman Location: Longueuil, QC, Canada
| Yeah it's gotta be a difficult or a bit weird for a girl to be in this kind of hobby. But I can't help but noticing that you're wondering too much as to what exactly this guy thinks or what exactly that guy thinks. This hobby isn't an all or nothing competition for for every guy, it's not even a way to show off for every person in this hobby. It's not even a competition, and it's not a way to say "I am better than you". It's fun. I think loosing this perspective is what causes this distress.
I am in it for my fun. For the time outdoors. I talk to guys who are like 10-15 years ahead of me, who were in competions and stuff, so what. There are things I am afraid of, there are things I am not. So?
Heck I wouldn't be surprised that there's a girl or even a kid flying a helicopter better than I do, so what, it's normal. May be she can teach me something. Should I be good at everything? Heck that's a lot of pressure :-)
For me it's a hobby. It's what I do for fun and it's a great fun. If I see a girl flying next to me, I would definitely be surprised, yes, pleasantly surprised, and I'm almost sure I will have a smile. But will this smile means that I am putting somebody down? Hell no. If you ask my opinion a person who puts somebody down has some issues :-).And what for? I think it's stupid.
I'd think: I fly for fun. She flies for fun as well. Let's fly together, if you wish, if not, fine.
And I remember I was giving advice to my mother on how to cook her cake, because I knew this oven better and had some good ideas about it. So? Is cooking a female only specialty? Some of the best cooks are male, some of the best aerobatics pilots are women. Check those aerobatical planes like SU-27, there's even a model in tower bearing a name of a woman champion. (Some of the best snipers are actually women)
I think it's all for the better. And it's not a competition. It's a hobby, it's done for fun, for pleasure.
(Didn't lionesses hunt better than a lion :-)?)
Do it for fun. And don't care what they think. (Most of the things you think they're thinking is not actually what they are thinking in reality) |